Updates

It is now been over 1 month since the California Child Protective Sevices have contacted me. I leave messages and no answer. The whole thing is just RUDE. 
I suspect the children are back with their dad. So I will mail out the kid\’s Valentines to their home and let their dad give it to them. If he doesn\’t, nothing I can do about it. 
When I sent the silly photo of the husband and me at Christmas, I hadn\’t realized that my husband was wearing his Hanukkah short that says \”Happy Challah Days\”  It has the star of David on it. It was totally obvious in the photo. We just didn\’t think. Baby Daddy and his family hate Jews and Israel. He knows my husband and from what Nina told me, he even likes him – even though they disagree on some things, but in spite of their differences, they do agree on many things. His mom and sisters who are living with him at this time, are very strict Muslims. 
I hope that photo did not alienate me from my niece and nephew. We were not trying to make a \”statement\” It was just an accident. We were not thinking. 
Then again, if I am to have a relationship with the kids, stepping around eggshells all the time due to their hatred and prejudices will eventually be unbearable. I just don\’t know. 
The husband and I are in a FUNK. The weather today was beautiful so we got out and took a long walk and that did make us feel much better. Saturday the 12th, is the Memorial service. He was disappointed that, the regular Honor Guard can\’t make it as well as the Submariners Group with the traditional bell ringing. It\’s heartbreaking. The State Veterans Cemetery was able to arrange for the Air Force to come to fold the flag.  Pops was Navy and Army. Oh well, it is what it is. 
All due to covid 19 restrictions. 

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3 thoughts on “Updates

  1. Anonymous February 6, 2021 / 1:41 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss…keeping you and your family in prayer…and I might add, this covid weariness and funk is real…sigh. And I might also add, you have to be yourself, period.

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  2. Anonymous February 6, 2021 / 3:52 pm

    Well you have to be who you are. I would avoid stirring them up but not be overly paranoid. You just cannot live a lie. I hope the children are OK and getting your gifts. 2020 has been a rough year for you. I'm glad it is 2021.

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  3. Anonymous February 6, 2021 / 9:26 pm

    We are who we are those who love and care for us accept us for whp we are

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