Facebook has been a thorn in my side for a long time. Yet, I continued to stay giving the excuse that all my out of state family and friends are on there. How would I live without Facebook in my life?
Facebook is a tool – it can be used for many uses. To keep up with family and friends – to have a limitless amount of photo storage that is free. Access to local event calendars and local Government agencies with their daily posts. It\’s a good place to get all your news depending on which news you are following. There are many pluses with Facebook, I admit. But in the last few years, I have noticed the people there, are just not nice. If you make comments on a page or a group, you get pounced on – everybody wants to argue and fight and call you out.
I had a cousin, who doesn\’t know my son – never met him and really didn\’t care to know him, yet friended him on Facebook – only to cyberbully him and his thoughts – she joined the same groups, only to harass him – she argued with him and called him names. He actually thought it was funny because he loves to argue and piss people off but for me, I thought it was crazy. So I unfriended her and the rest of my cousins, who REALLY, the only thing we have ever had in common was our grandparents. I never grew up with them – I didn\’t know them and they didn\’t know me. Why keep up with people I don\’t even know and have shown no signs of wanting to really know me?
Same with high school friends. I mean, where was my head when I accepted high school \”friends\” on my Facebook? These particular ladies were the popular/cheerleader types that were bullies. The mean girls. They made my years in high school a living hell. I even slit my wrists when I was a sophomore because I couldn\’t handle the bullying and back then, it was, \”suck it up.\” type of mentality. I soon, noticed, NOTHING HAD CHANGED with these mean women. They were still catty, and gossipy. So I did a major purge and only kept 1 friend who I had known since the 6th grade. She was bullied, too.
When I think of how long I have been on Facebook (since August 2008) I am shocked and kinda embarrassed. Think of all the wasted time I spent there. In the last few years, many friends have left and it hasn\’t been as much fun as it was in those early years.
I never knew how entrenched Facebook was in my life. Today is Day 5. I\’m okay. I do miss my friends who decided to stay. They message me now and then. One plus I am noticing is I am sleeping better at night, and I feel more at peace and that\’s saying something with all that is going on in the country right now.
From My House – For the homemaking side of me