The husband and I are snipping at each other more than usual over stupid stuff. I guess me forgetting to close cupboard doors are driving him crazy! I honestly don\’t know why I am doing this. It just started. But on the other hand, I don\’t get why he is so fixated on it.
Things that the husband is doing that BUGS ME:
He places his dirty dishes not in the sink – not in the dishwasher but on the workspace counters. He never did this before.
He is forgetting to flush the toilet on occasion.
He\’s asking me what I plan to do in the day. It makes me think he is \”judging me.\”
He repeats himself.
He forgets where he puts down his eyeglasses every single day
Sometimes he is just too cheery for me.
When he\’s reading his book, he calls me in, to tell me what he read. I don\’t want to hear it.
He thinks I am supposed to AGREE with his opinions.
He keeps closing the curtain in my craft room before we go to bed. Why?
He keeps closing the teeny weenie window in our greenhouse kitchen window at night. WHY? No one can climb in.
Things I do that bugs my husband
Leave the cupboard doors open in the kitchen
I\’m on my phone too much
I won\’t listen to him tell me about his book while he is reading it.
I\’m not as \”cheery\” as he is or how he thinks I should be.
I tend to always have a opposite opinion than him on everything these days.
I get \”fixated\” on stuff. (oh and he doesn\’t?)
I\’ve been forgetting to put the toilet paper on the roll. (maybe that is why he is forgetting to flush the toilet?)
I let people bug me.
I cherish my alone time more than an afternoon nap with him and the dog
I can\’t seem to make a decision.
There are more, I am sure – I just can\’t think of any right now. For the most part, we\’re fine. Is this because of the Stay at Home order or is this RETIREMENT? We were JUST starting to get into our retirement GROOVE when all of this came crashing down. I\’d go out shopping, do some crafting/gardening and he would do his VFW or go hiking/heavy-duty yard work. Of course, all of that is either closed down. or we have no supplies.
This morning we talked about doing a \”joint project\” together. Like paint the master bathroom, or clean the garage.